According to this little conversation Hayden who has a cognative age of about 3years suddenly decided to add his thoughts to use who were trying to help him.
Hayden No I can do it I'm not dumb
We were all silent for a moment as we could not believe that he could even think of something like that, and then let him have a go for himself.
Then I was reminded, by my lovely friend Mary-Anne of this great quote
Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believe that it is stupid.
― Albert Einstein